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JDMitation
04-23-2007, 02:12 AM
and you KNOW FOR A FACT that it is a mistake, like it will never work out and he needs to think twice before he does something goofy. (he's young and has no papers so he thinks he has to rush into shit) do you be a nice guy and say congrats and hold your tongue or let him know really whats up?

im not talking like best best friend but definately in your close circle of buddies you kick it with every day and you are really close.

Chiodos
04-23-2007, 06:21 AM
I would be honest and let him know whats up!

RhdRicheeee
04-23-2007, 06:57 AM
:type: voted

DJ NeX
04-23-2007, 08:02 AM
I love where this poll is going.

hector200
04-23-2007, 08:06 AM
heh i say tell him, but he is not gonna listen, so you tell him just so down the road you can say i told you so

blkmrkt
04-23-2007, 08:19 AM
Tell him how you feel but you or him will not know the future so keep your mouth shut on that part because even if you were right,putting it in his face later is just being a dick and then if you were wrong im sure you would here about it. Ive learned to talk shit with friends about other peoples choices and just give the friend with the problem a clean version of the truth and how i feel otherwise it gets to personal.

jägermeister
04-23-2007, 09:34 AM
i would choose my words carefully. i'd tell him that in your opinion its not the best idea and state reasons why.

EvolEvo
04-23-2007, 09:38 AM
Mind your own business. People tried to tell me that dating my (wife) but at the time GF was a mistake, and one of my "friends" tried to talk her out of dating me cause he said I was a "man whore," and a "dog."

Now we are married, and happy, and shes trying to get a raise so I can buy car shit. LOL best wife in the world in my opinion.

Chinky
04-23-2007, 09:38 AM
and you KNOW FOR A FACT that it is a mistake, like it will never work out and he needs to think twice before he does something goofy. (he's young and has no papers so he thinks he has to rush into shit) do you be a nice guy and say congrats and hold your tongue or let him know really whats up?

im not talking like best best friend but definately in your close circle of buddies you kick it with every day and you are really close.

well if he is an illegal immigrant (no papers i assume that's what u mean) getting married to us citizen makes u a citizen.

that's may be one reason why he is rushing into it.

besides the paper thing i would say be honest but ultimately he's already made up his mind

EvolEvo
04-23-2007, 10:33 AM
Wait. If hes an illegal fucking have his ass deported. That way your killing 2 birds with one stone. Your helping the illegal immigrant problem, and hes not gettign married. Voila!

I Hate Import Cars
04-23-2007, 10:52 AM
heh i say tell him, but he is not gonna listen, so you tell him just so down the road you can say i told you so

x 5 million...even though you know there's not a snowball's chance in Hell you're going to change his mind, put it in writing and lock it away that you said it was a bad deal, just so that leter when it goes in the shitter, you can always play that card when he disagrees with you after that. And let me tell you, it's a wonderful card to have in your hand!

dr@ke
04-23-2007, 11:00 AM
if she the one for him that kool with his boy's then she's a "KEEPER" if not tell him to
"GET IN AND GET OUT"

stillfading99
04-23-2007, 11:01 AM
my friend just went through this with her best friend, u gotta give them a heads up but let them know u'll support them no matter what

FUK JDM
04-23-2007, 11:17 AM
Wait. If hes an illegal fucking have his ass deported. That way your killing 2 birds with one stone. Your helping the illegal immigrant problem, and hes not gettign married. Voila!

Idiot.

That's exactly what a true friend would do. :roll:

Fuck a poll, Do what you think is best man.

Chinky
04-23-2007, 11:21 AM
bros before hoes

ef9sleeper
04-23-2007, 11:22 AM
Give him your opinion, but don't be a dick. He is going to make his own decision no matter what, and if you're a dick it might affect your friendship.

rushbuster70
04-23-2007, 12:26 PM
bros before hoes

x264351354135

Rufus
04-23-2007, 12:31 PM
beagals before illegals

Chinky
04-23-2007, 12:34 PM
beagals before illegals

lol

now buy cowboi's beagals!

anyway yea dood if he is illegal it's better for him if he gets married cause then he won;t be illegal anymore.

imm0rtal
04-23-2007, 12:55 PM
I'd let him know how I felt about it and see how he takes it. If he doesn't see my point, my next question would be whether there is an open bar at the reception :blunt:

teemfedx
04-23-2007, 02:18 PM
i like this idea of writing it down with a date and have both of you sign the paper saying you knew it was a bad deal to begin with, and you were a true freind letting him know how you feel.

its always hard to involve yourself in others romantic affairs, but in this case it really is life chaning for the fact that he is trying to get citizenship. he may be blinded by that and is just trying to do whats best for him...

just get him really drunk, lock youselfs in a room and keep talking untill you agree on something...just dont have any guns in the room...

g/l

Owens
04-23-2007, 02:57 PM
Just leave him be, he wants pussy and citizenship.

Marriage is the new Dating anyways. Sad but true.

jägermeister
04-23-2007, 03:01 PM
Marriage is the new Dating anyways. Sad but true.

x2.

jg-hatch
04-23-2007, 03:15 PM
Tell him how you feel but also let him know you support him because you guys are friends.

cowboi
04-23-2007, 03:40 PM
if hes ur homie.. ud tell him how u feel...

JDMitation
04-23-2007, 04:20 PM
it's not even romantic she is a bitch and he hates putting up with her. he is 23 and thinks its time to settle down for some reason. and ya he wants to get his papers by marrying a citizen but there are 1000 non bitchy women in the universe he can do that with. i will let him know the bizznazz.

Evil Empire
04-23-2007, 06:21 PM
Tell him to marry some ugly cunt, get his papers, break up...and then take his time looking for a good one :clap:

Nott_Sure
04-23-2007, 07:39 PM
bros before hoes
x264351354135

+1
beagals before illegals

:clap: :p



I would let him know whats up and not show up to his wedding. If the general consensus in his group of friends feel the same way about his decision and let him know. Then i would imagine that he would prolly get the hint and really think things through on what he is doing.

DJ NeX
04-23-2007, 07:59 PM
BBH...plain and simple.

SOHCsoldier
04-24-2007, 01:37 PM
if you tell him he would just get mad unless he is a true BBH guy. People are morons sometimes you just have to let them figure it out on there own

Stealthy
04-24-2007, 01:39 PM
tell him whats up, then see what happens

urquidezj
04-24-2007, 07:25 PM
its tough people don't know what is is to be paper-less. but you say she's a bitch. let him know, if hes in it for just papers, he should find someone he at least enjoys. oh and the whole get married and then get divorced thing doesn't work out that way. you separate from her and so do your papers...

96accordsir
04-24-2007, 07:31 PM
the numbers speak
voted

DJ NeX
04-26-2007, 12:45 PM
Kick him in the nuts.

If there's pain, tell him to get his act together and Pull his head outta her ass

If there isn't pain. Wish them good luck and find a new friend.

Chinky
04-26-2007, 12:49 PM
Tell him to marry some ugly cunt, get his papers, break up...and then take his time looking for a good one :clap:

x2

BBH...plain and simple.

QUIT!

post whore

EvolEvo
05-04-2007, 03:05 PM
Idiot.

That's exactly what a true friend would do. :roll:

Fuck a poll, Do what you think is best man.


Idiot? Haha okay Leon.


secondly. I was a joke. I realize there isint such thing as inflection or tone in print, but I figured the stupid fucknig Viola at the end was a very clear indicatior that I was fucking around. Fucking moron.

honda_power_noob
05-04-2007, 03:09 PM
can we see pics of this girl?

Agent Smith
05-04-2007, 08:05 PM
can we see pics of this girl?

classic! lol. pics for a PROPER vote pole. lol.

JDMitation
05-04-2007, 08:19 PM
she's decent. no pics. no ass mexican broad.